Last week we learned there are 4 sensory types each of uses as a default while under stress: 1: tonal; 2: visual; 3: kinesthetic; 4: digital. See the Energies of Love book for in-depth exploration. When one is in the midst of an argument, the default mode will prevail and any attempt to convince the person to perceive the situation in another mode will fail. So, that means if we learn our own sensory type, and that of those close to us, we will begin to communicate in an effective and loving way. This is the energy of love. There are energetic tests that can be used to determine the sensory type, which is beyond the scope of this Column. However, it is beneficial to learn more about each type to help identify your sensory type; which also helps acceptance that your way of being in this world may be very very different that your loved one.
Today we explore the person’s whose sensory default is tonal (when in balance is very intuitive, insightful, engaging and probing to understand all nuances of others’ being). Here is the 
vignette. Harry & Nancy have been married for 20 years. Nancy asks Harry to please be mindful that the 16 year old son needs more attention after dinner since she is worried that he is distancing himself from the family. As she is explaining her concerns, Harry become exceedingly upset, telling her that he is doing the best he can and asking her why she is always criticizing him for his failure to be a good father and accusing him of never interacting with their son. Nancy gets distressed and tries to explain her logic, but Harry can hear nothing and storms out of the room……. Sound like anyone you know? Harry’s sensory type is a tonal and until he comes back to his own center, no words will be heard in anyway other than as he hears them, filling in the blanks as he thinks he is hearing. Harry is under stress and in his default sensory mode, absorbed in his own world and feeling very rejected. Solution? Both parties stop, look and listen after doing the 3 thumps, Crown Pull and Wayne Cook exercise ( see 5 Minute Routine ).Try the exercise in the column “Hand to Heart with Partner Creates Bond” (2 weeks ago) There are many more solutions in the book….. Understanding our loved ones energies, changes all our lives..
Have fun with your energy! Next week’s topic is “Energies of Love- You are Always Wrong”. Send questions to Karen at ksemmelmanenergy@gmail.com .EEM does not diagnose or cure illness, but working with subtle energies of the body has been shown to help many conditions.
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